"Y sabes que al Murray no ligas" = You know in Murray you dont hook up" :/ Yeah thats the face I put! Murray is a club. The situations was, a friend speaking with another friend over the phone, deciding where to go to party. Murray is a club, where based in the info of that person, you can not find a girl to hook up with. Is he probably going every week and not finding any interesting girls? Did he go once and it happened? whatever it happened this sounds like a believe that he has set up in his mind from previous experiences.
Beliefs limit us in many ways. Because I believe this I can not do that, or because I do believe that I can do it.
"I am shy"
"I am not creative"
"I can not find a nice girl there"
Just ask around to different people if they used to be shy, if they used to be creative or if they found a girl in that club "Murray" and I do guarantee there are people who used to be and because of their attitude or the consciousness about it, it changed or people who have found interesting girls in that place.
I would recommend not to base your life in lies or in things you have not even experienced.
The fact of going to that club with the believe that there are no interesting girls, is most probably what will happen! You will probably miss them as your brain already think so.
Think of the example of getting a new car, you suddenly start seeing that same car you want everywhere! Your focus, you are open to see it. If you are focus in not finding any great girls you will probably miss them. If you believe there will be hot girls you may find them! I know it sounds so simple, but please before forgetting it, give it a try!! And let me know how it goes! :)
Your system believe is important, my advice: base it in real experiences instead of in information you read or hear.
Please as I always say, dont believe everything I say here straight away, just pick up your truth and use it practically.
*Is your life TRUE?. Is your life based in things that are TRUE.
Have a beautiful night/ day!