People play a BIG role in our lives, is it anything more important than people? Have you ever though you didn’t like people, well you are people! So unless you don’t like yourself (If this is the case, don’t worry it can be changed!), you cannot dislike people! People are amazing! When we go for a trip what we most remember are the moments where there were people involved! Isn’t it?
Knowing how to deal with people and how to make them happy can be one of the strongest tools you can ever have.
What people like? You are people, so think of yourself.
Think in general, as we always say there are exceptions for everything.
THEMSELVES. What to talk about? About themselves, never fails. Ask them about themselves. And listen, to be able to ask more questions about them and to be able to follow the conversation.
HAPPY and SMILEY people/ POSITIVE people. Is not about pretending that you are happy person, but about getting to that point!
FRIENDLY people. Be friendly! At all times!
CONFIDENT people. I don´t mean to be pretending the whole time that you are a confident person. But to get to the point where you just feel confident! You will need to work on this! Get out of your comfort zone very often!
STORIES. Tell them stories that they ask you for, they will love them! But always try them to ask you and tell them with your most enthusiastic side.
LOVE. Show your love for them, and it is not about kissing them or hugging them at all times (which is not a bad thing to do sometimes) but to show that you care about them, again not pretending you care about them! But why would you not care? Imagine yourself after a whirlwind where everyone except one person and yourself are gone, would that person not be important for you? Would you not care and love this person straight away? It would become the only family you would have by then! I know it is a dramatic story but a good example to think about how important ANYONE could become for you at certain situations. Why to wait until that moment?
COOPERATION. Imagine yourself in concert where everybody enjoy the same thing at the same time, or in your work team, where everybody works for the same propose, or any kind of cooperation you have ever lived (and if you haven’t you can try, just by playing a game with a group of people, or helping to make a dinner, etc), haven’t you feel great during that time?
Are all of these not some of our favourite things??
Have a great day!